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Thursday, July 3, 2014

Childhood Memory !


                                                                                   
        One small child with some colorful marvels playing in the yard without ignorance, he had some more chalk and toys in his hand. He played there as if he was free from all burden . In the yard; flowers, butterflies and grasshoppers also looked at that children with fun. Sky seemed as if it was also free from all burden and looked more blue than ever. Suddenly there was the voice of women calling and shouting from the old house, the house looked like the old cottage, roof of the house looked muddy and dirt.
          After listening the voice of that women child got up and he seemed as if he was like good boy and humble.  Women with red sari with white complexion come along with stick in her hand saying 'Badmas'. Then, the boy ran out of house with his unique style. He ran by saying stingy mummy with his sweet voice. He was always stubborn. If he decided something that things should be in an hour. His mummy get him and took him to the house. While interning in home he can saw the outer appearance of surroundings. While both mother and son interred in home, the voice of the man attracted the mind of the boy. He said 'Daddy' without looking at him. Then, he jumped toward daddy's lap. There he can smelled the smell of sweat which was coming from his daddy's body. And the sweet smell of ink from his father's pen which was in his pocket.
          He suddenly moved his head towards kitchen because his mother prepared a tasty meal, the tasty smell was coming from the kitchen. Then, the boy jumped from his father's lap and ran towards the kitchen calling 'Mummy-Mummy' while he was running he guessed what was that food his mother prepared in the kitchen. He thought it was corn, milk, bread etc. After few minutes he interred in tinny room which was full of smoke coming from oven. He can smell the smoke which was dusty. He didn't want to smell other things than the tasty smell of food. In the kitchen, he saw fire-woods are on floor, spoon, plates, glasses are on old cupboard which's glass was broken and managed by black tape. Black tape was a little bit hanging through cupboard which was looking awful.
          Suddenly the boy's concentration was broke by his mother. His mother served him the food, the food looked very delicious from outer level. He wanted to put his hands towards the food but his mother grasped his hands then he can felt his mother's touch which was lukewarm, lovely and caring. He looked towards his mother eyes which was a little bit tears and full of red colour. The eyes looked like red tomato because of smoke in the kitchen.
          The boys tasted that food by his mother's hand which smell odd with the mixture of different things. He ate that food as if he was hungry from one week. He can listened the sound which was coming from the radio which was tunings by his father. The radio played a beautiful songs, then the boy nodded his head and produced the sound 'hmmhmm'. Then, his mother said not to nodded his head.
          After finishing the food the boy went near to his father with his small copy and pencil. He said, 'Daddy A B C D'. Father smiled toward him and kissed his checks. He can felt wet. His father bite in his checks, he felt little pain and said 'Ahh'. He was completely lost in his father's lap where he sometimes write, sometimes read and sometimes played.

Facebook !



            As if parents did not already have enough to worry about now they need to worry about their children displaying negative psychological effects from over using facebook.

Facebook is very popular social networking site over eight hundred million users. As an avid user of facebook myself, I find it hard to believe that at one point it didn’t exist. Infact, it has become so much apart of people’s lives that you can learn their life story just by checking their page. Their friends, likes and dislikes relationship status
Phone numbers address everything.
         
          Social media like facebook may both positive and negative effects. Talking about positive aspects of facebook, it helps to keeping touch with family and friends making new friends, expressing you.

          As we have many positive aspects of facebook we have many negative aspects and effects of the social media. Use of social media may harm on our creativity and knowledge. Creative power may get generated from social media but it doesn’t make that creative power of learning.

          Facebook has many possibilities of doing well in life. We can find relevant things which we need in our life including authentic knowledge about different application, instant news, word-making games, IQ test, etc. Facebook mainly used by different people having different perception. Some of them used facebook as communication tool, some as the media which is helpful in their daily lives.

          Negative psychological effects of facebook from ‘Overdosing’. Latest research which examines teens and facebook was conducted using 1,000 teen surveys and observation of 300 teens actively studying. It concluded that multiple negative psychological effects could result from spending too much time on facebook and other social media.

          Negative effects of facebook on teens who overuse this social media include; teens whose facebook frequently may became narcissistic, teens who have a strong facebook presence may display psychological disorders, such as anti-social behaviours, and mania and aggressive tendencies.

          Facebook do not only effects on mentally but it also effects in educational aspects. Although this pretty much goes without saying, being connected to technology on a ongoing basis can seriously impact on teen’s education.

          The time has come to determine which should take and which should left for using social media. Parents and families also have the responsibility to lessen the negative effects of facebook and its overuse on their children. Parents should not foster their children to monitoring such software at home.

          Psychological and educational effects of facebook, other technologies and media on children is invaluable. Perhaps attentive family/parents have already take action. But for those that have not, it is the time to wake up to the consequences of facebook and overuse can have on our children and combat it.